The ‘Good girls’ and the ‘Goodtime girls’ part 2
In part 1 of my article i discussed some of the social problems that my community faces living in the Western World. I now want to conclude this article by showing the serious consequences of the behaviour of the ‘Good time Girls.’
The behaviour of the ‘Good time girls ‘has reduced the trust in the marriage contract in our society.Remember in my community a marriage is a ‘Commercial contract with an element of Love’, while in the Western world it is all about the love, unless you end up in the divorce court...then it is all about the money.
Imagine you are a prospective husband, you have gone through the vetting process, and are the Prime candidate, your physical, mental and most important financial well being are in good order.
It is your big day the boy’s family have given the four sets of Jewellery for the four functions of the Wedding. The total cost shared between the families, but due to the payment of the dowrie, in some parts of our community cash of $40,000 upwards has to be paid to the bride’s family, before paying for the rest. This is a colossal commitment if things go wrong, you could lose your money and bride.
So much care and attention is needed at this stage to avoid a costly mistake. The gruelling wedding over four functions, rapidly depleting the bank balance and taking a emotional toll on everybody, as you have to be nice to people you would not associate with in your personal life. As they say friends you can choose, family you’re stuck with. After the wedding you bring your beautiful expensive wife home, hoping you have made a wise decision.
You get your bags packed next day and you’re off to your honeymoon, hopefully the place will be hot and pleasant, where you can have plenty of sun, sea, sand and sex (your return on your investment).
As you sit on the plane discussing small things, while you surfing the internet,keeping friends informed by the hour what you are up to.A friend of yours from your University days, congratulates you on your marriage and future success. As someone who lost touch with you after University days, you mention how he was able to know, he politely tells you he went on a well known social media site and was able to find out. You ask him what he thinks of your future wife, your friend suddenly remains silent for a long time and changes the subject.
You quickly realize the deception, and your suspicion is aroused..have you married a ‘Good girl’ or a ‘Goodtime girl’. While your wife is a sleep you surf the internet to see if you can source any information, you did not know already about your wife. As soon as you type her name, lots of information pops up about her various activities and relationships. Your shock turns to disappointment then anger.
The best way to describe this situation imagine you go to a car auction where you are the highest bidder for a new car. You drive the car home and find out that it is a used car, has had more than one owner, with high mileage. You also find out you cannot return the car and get your money back. Remember your future wife is not on a sale or a return basis.
The above maybe hypothetical example, but these things do occur. The consequences of this is that in our community, the most educated girls in our society have the lowest reputation. As a result of this we have become a very low trust society,when it comes to marriage. There is now a surplus of unwed girls, who have very little chance of finding a decent husband.
Now you would think that families would adjust to the changing circumstances i.e. be more realistic in their requirements, but no they are going the opposite way. They would rather let their daughters grow old, than lower their expectations. Many Girls over 30 yrs can see their prospects diminish before their eyes.
Ultimately a relationship is about trust...in marriage, with declining trust in relationships and divorce rates going up, now many people especially males choosing not to get married. With men if the marriage fails, he is going to a have liability imposed on him due to the female friendly Law Courts. Many men are the losers in marriage and divorce financially. In marriage a man pays for ‘sex’ also called ‘love’. For this love he will pay a high price, long hours at work, house loan payments+ household expenses. So marriage is a costly enterprise. Divorce on the other hand costs even more.
Let me explain by a real example. I knew an individual who divorced from his wife. The court made an order, being the father of a small child, the court ordered him out of the house and his wife to continue to live in it. The court also made him continue to pay the house loan, maintenance for the child and money to his ex- wife.
The court reasoned as his wife did not work during their relationship, she should not be compelled to go out and work. So he ended up living in a one bedroom dingy flat, continued to pay for everything, and only when his daughter turned 18 yrs was he able to sell the house, and he got half of the proceeds...in the English language we say he was ‘shafted’ by the female friendly legal system.
My Nephew is a law graduate, he has decided he is going to remain single as he has no intention of giving 50% of his wealth to a girl, he may end up not liking...I think he is a very wise young man
To put a final touch to my article the divorce business is worth over $50 billion in the US...women, the legal system and Lawyers the main beneficiaries...the men the victims....Feminism has won and helped destroy Western Society.